The Day Our Daughter Disappeared

Every Parent’s Worst Fear

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AFTER BEING out of town for several days doing back-to-back speaking events, I arrived home exhausted. Needing sleep, I lay down on my bed for a nap.

The next thing I knew, my wife was shaking me awake, saying something urgent about our five-year-old daughter, Rebecca.

“What?” I asked groggily. “What’s going on?”

“We can’t find Rebecca!” Nancy said, in a tone reserved for statements like, “The house is on fire.”

“Rebecca? What?!” I leapt up, instantly wide awake. Pit in my stomach. “What do you mean she’s missing? I saw her just before I lay down. She has to be here somewhere.”

“We’ve looked everywhere,” Nancy insisted. “We’ve ransacked the house. We’ve searched outside, in the trees, everywhere. She’s not here! The last time I saw her, she was outside playing in the yard.”

The terror in Nancy’s eyes leapt into me like an electric current. I began frantically searching the house.

“We’ve already looked,” she said again, her voice rising. “She’s vanished. She’s not here. And I waited until I had searched everywhere before waking you.”

My worst nightmare as a parent, one of my children being abducted, was unfolding in hideous detail as I picked up the phone and called 911. I gave the dispatcher a description of our daughter: A strawberry-blonde, blue-eyed, freckle-faced pixie.

Speaking the words, “My five-year-old daughter is missing, and I think she may have been taken,” did not feel possible. It was the kind of sentence you hear about on the news, never one you expect to say yourself. As if I were quoting someone else’s nightmare. This can’t be happening to me, to us. The unthinkable thought that our daughter had been abducted looped endlessly in my mind, circling me, refusing to loosen its grip.

Within maybe five minutes, the first of several police squad cars and sheriff vehicles began pulling into our driveway. If our daughter had been abducted, the officer told me grimly, every second counted. They searched our home and yard, and soon an officer confirmed our worst fear. Our little girl was gone.

Jet-black dread flooded my mind as the unthinkable crashed down on me. My daughter had been abducted. I began sobbing. Nancy was sobbing. We did not know what to do. We held each other, but even that did not help. It was too much.

Soon a sheriff’s helicopter was circling a few hundred feet above our neighborhood, scanning yards, roads, fields, and nearby woods. Deputies fanned out and canvassed the neighborhood, going door to door, urgently showing Rebecca’s picture and asking for any information, any at all.

“Mr. Madrid,” an officer said, “we’re going to need a statement from you. Come with me, please.”

We walked over to his cruiser, and I sat in the passenger seat, struggling to hold myself together as he asked where I had been and what I had been doing for the past several hours. I knew that if my daughter had been taken, my world was over. Life as I had known it was over. A lifetime of misery and aching emptiness was just beginning.

Through my tears, as if in a dream, I numbly retraced every step I had taken that afternoon, from the moment I deboarded my return flight and left the airport, heading for home and the normal life I expected to find there.

Then everything changed.

Minutes later, another officer strode up and rapped excitedly on the window. He was grinning.

Then Nancy came running out into the driveway, smiling and crying at the same time.

“They found her! They found her! She’s okay!”

What? I felt like a popped balloon. All the intense emotional pressure vanished in an instant. My little girl was safe. Unharmed. On her way home. Alive. The realization washed over me in a single overwhelming surge, a sudden, glorious flood of relief I never saw coming.

In the space of a heartbeat, I went from the darkest depths of despair to a rush of joy so complete that words fail it.

Nancy and I embraced laughing and crying. Tears of joy and relief. Laughter. More tears.

So what had happened?

Rebecca, curious little sprite that she was, had decided to explore our eldest daughter’s car. Part of the back seat folded down to allow access to the trunk. Rebecca climbed through the opening, and once inside, the seat snapped shut, locking her in.

Well over an hour later, our older daughter got in the car, turned up the stereo, and drove to work, never hearing little Rebecca, who for well over an hour had been knocking and screaming trapped inside the trunk, unsuccessfully trying desperately to get someone’s attention.

About an hour later, Bridget received a frantic call from Nancy telling her to come home immediately because Rebecca was missing. Bridget explained the emergency to her boss, grabbed her purse, and rushed out to her car.

Waiting there were several police officers and an anxious-looking woman.

“Is this your car, miss?” one officer asked, eyeing her carefully.

“Yes,” Bridget said, startled. “Why? What’s wrong?”

“We need you to open the trunk. Right now.”

Shaken, Bridget opened it.

Inside, curled up, shivering and blinking in the sudden light, was little Rebecca. She was cold, frightened, and hungry, but otherwise unharmed. Who knows how long she might have been trapped in that trunk? Given how cold the weather was, I shudder to imagine how long she may have suffered, huddled alone and afraid in the dark.

Seeing her older sister, Rebecca shot out of the trunk and into Bridget’s arms, sobbing and shivering.

The woman had parked next to Bridget’s car and happened to glance inside. She noticed a spare windshield wiper blade being repeatedly poked through the back seat from the trunk. Realizing someone was trapped, she immediately called the police.

Once Rebecca explained how she had climbed inside, everything fell into place. Bridget brought her straight home.

The joy and relief Nancy and I felt was overwhelming.

This happened twenty years ago. Rebecca is married now, and a mother. Eight years before that, she was the captain of her high school varsity soccer team.

In between were all the moments a father assumes will be there.

I taught her how to drive, sitting tensely in the passenger seat, reminding myself to smile and to breathe. When young men came to take her out, I looked them in the eye and told them to drive safely and bring her home on time, and they always did. In all of it, I had the greatest joy a father could ever hope for: watching my precious little girl’s life gradually unfold, day by day, almost imperceptibly, into the lovely young woman she has become.

There were school events, late-night talks, laughter around the dinner table, and ordinary days whose value I only fully understood later. So much life, love, joy, fun, and happiness have surrounded her, and Nancy and me, since that dark day. I still shudder to imagine what our lives, especially our daughter’s, would have been like if she truly had been taken from us that afternoon.

One thing in my life did change forever that day, and for that I am deeply grateful.

I learned how suddenly and completely life can change. On a dime. From one moment to the next. And I learned never to take anyone, or anything, for granted.

Each day is a gift.

Each person is a gift.

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